「羅曼」禍從口出!《玩命》男星泰瑞斯吉布森為歧視女性言論道歉 「女士們,妳們值得更好的…」

by BeautiMode 2017/04/19

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在電影《玩命關頭》(The Fast And The Furious)系列中,扮演搞笑大王羅曼(Roman)的美國男星泰瑞斯吉布森(Tyrese Gibson)近期陷入失言風波,雖然善意對女性提出建言,但用詞卻引發歧視爭議,讓大批網友湧入社群媒體抗議。他也為此在Instagram發表長篇道歉文緊急滅火。

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泰瑞斯吉布森在《BET》發布的受訪影片中,發表了對「淫亂女人」的意見,他說:「蕩婦、妓女、婊子和那些過度淫亂的女性從不缺男人,因為她們對此沒有底線,她們準備好和任何想與她們有性關係的對象發生性關係。」他鼓勵單身女性不用急著脫單,而是要知道她們的自我價值。

他繼續補充說道:「你會看到這些女人在外頭很活躍,她們去吃午餐,每晚都去吃晚餐,私人飛機、豪華遊艇,生活得很好,她們什麼都不缺。但這一切都是需要付出代價的,拜託!妳得把自尊放到非常非常低的位置!」

這段訪談立刻在社群媒體引起反彈聲浪,連知名脫口秀主持人溫蒂威廉斯(Wendy Williams)都在節目上大力砰擊,泰瑞斯吉布森和採訪他的《BET》都被罵得滿頭包,即使《BET》也表示他的意見並不代表媒體本身的立場。

而泰瑞斯吉布森為了平息外界砲火,近日也在Instagram發表好幾則貼文對所有女性致上最大的歉意。

他寫道,「我媽媽的教導遠優於這一切…在生活中學到的教訓,你會學到重點往往不在於你說了『什麼』,而是我們選擇『如何』說出這些話。」

「要先聲明,我完全不是個憎恨女人的人、一個男性沙文主義者或是極為卑劣的人…..我的意圖表達出來了,但我的表達方式太討人厭了…..而且很顯然差太遠了….對此我要誠摯地向所有女性道歉…即使在這次道歉之後…有些人很可能選擇不要原諒我…時間與堅持會治癒一切的創傷….」

「雖然多年來我一直持續地談論這些主題,我的訊息之中也有一些相同的字眼,但我從未經歷過我現在正體驗的事。相信我…我被自己拙劣的用詞和表達訊息的方式拖累,也感受到眾人的怒火。請接受我為我拙劣的用詞誠摯的道歉,當這一切從一個社群媒體蔓延到我自己的老婆,不但斜眼瞪我還攻擊我,鳥事就變得很真實了,就連她也對我的行為感到很不滿。」

My mother taught me better than this..... lesson learned in life you will learn that It's not always "what" you say, it's the "how" we choose to say it. For the record I'm far from a misogynist, a male chauvinist or flat out mean..... My intentions were there but my delivery fucking horrible.... And clearly all the way off.... And for that I sincerely apologize to all of the ladies... Even after this apology.... Some may likely decide to NOT forgive me.... Time and consistency heals all wounds.... Although I've been consistently for years speaking on these topics and some of the same words in my message, I have never experienced what I am experiencing right now. - I've been getting dragged and feel the heat from my poor choice of words and approach to my messages, trust me..... Please accept this as my sincere apology for my poor choice of words - Shit gets real when it goes from a social media dragging to my own wife giving me the side eye and coming at me, even she's not happy with the way I've conducted myself.... it's crazy how non-public figures can say and do some really dumb shit and it will stay amongst your family and friends or local in your hood.... When you have been an entertainer for 15+ years the whole WORLD is literally watching you grow up & learn, bump your head, make mistakes and evolve as the world watches.... This is a real lesson learned... This is not just a regular IG post for me. I want to truly say that I'm sorry, I'm not APOLOGIZING in an effort to be politically correct, I apologize as a man first for the things that I've recently said about choices women have the right to make, for the terms that I've used and the way I've come across. I was raised to think and feel certain ways, and I'm learning new things that combat those messages. I am not perfect or all knowing, nor am I the one to claim to be. I've learned things through experience which I share, and through these last couple of weeks, I've learned a lot through this well deserved internet dragging...... This is about a man owning up to his actions, taking responsibility, recognizing how to do better, and actually doing better. Ladies you deserve better...

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他也表示,「我不是為了政治正確才道歉,而是以一個男性的身分道歉,首先為最近談及女人有權為自己選擇的內容而道歉,為我使用的字詞及我給人留下的印象而道歉。我從小被教導以某種方式思考及感受,但我接觸的新事物與那些訊息相互衝突牴觸,我並不完美或無所不知,我也沒有宣稱自己就是如此。我從我自己的經驗中學習,在過去幾週,我從這次我應得的網路負評中學到許多。」

「這是關於一個敢於承擔自己行為、責任,認清如何能做得更好並真的做得更好的男人。女士們,妳們值得更好的…」

接著他上傳兩則貼文,一則分享了他欣賞的成功人士鼓舞人心的名言,另一則與沃克家人的合照則是要獻給已故的保羅沃克(Paul Walker)。「相信人生接下來的幾秒鐘是屬於你的或是指望還有下週,這是很傲慢的想法……我想鼓勵各位愛得更深、愛得有耐心,愛得謙虛、愛得無條件,用你的心去愛,不求回報地愛著………」他繼續寫道,「這是我所珍惜的時刻,沃克家族是我們所有人最堅強的,愛與光明,我們希望我們能讓你驕傲…….保羅兄弟,我知道你每天都可以聽到我們提起你的名字以及傳遞愛給你……..我們想念你,老大!!!」


由導演蓋瑞葛雷(Felix Gary Gray)領軍的《玩命關頭8》(The Fate of the Furious)是首次沒有保羅沃克的系列作品,但加入了如影后莎莉賽隆(Charlize Theron)、史考特伊斯威特(Scott Eastwood)、海倫米蘭(Helen Mirren)等生力軍。電影上映以來票房持續攀升,光是開片首週就刷新紀錄,超越兩年前的《STAR WARS:原力覺醒》(Star Wars: The Force Awakens)及《侏儸紀世界》(Jurassic World),成為全球有史以來開片週末票房最賣座的電影。

Here's some inspirational words to keep the struggling entrepreneurs of our world encouraged -Every single person I know who is successful at what they do is successful because they love doing it. The biggest risk is not taking any risk… In a world that changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks.” – Mark Zuckerberg, Facebook “The hardest part about being an entrepreneur is that you’ll fail ten times for every success.” – Adam Horwitz, Mobile Monopoly “The companies that I really admire the most are the ones that have a deep visceral understanding of why people use their service, and they figure out ways of making money that are completely consistent with how people are feeling and what they are doing at the time.” – Ben Silbermann, Pinterest “We led with our conviction rather than rational, because rational said it was impossible.” – Daniel Ek, Spotify "You can't get points TODAY for yesterday's game so don't rest on what's already been accomplished, everyday is a grind, everyday is a hustle" - Michael Jordan

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資料來源:Hollywood Reporter

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